"Embrace Your Inner Bitch"
Bitch. Traditionally defined as a female dog, "a malicious, spiteful or overbearing woman", a "lewd or immoral woman", or something that is difficult, objectionable, or unpleasant". Also: A bad ass individual who won't take anyone's shit.
While you won’t find this last definition in Merriam Webster, popular culture is well aware of this adjusted meaning. And we have our third-wave feminists and Riot grrrls of the 1990s – including BitchMedia who launched “Bitch: Feminist Response to Pop Culture”, an independent quarterly magazine, and Meredith Brooks who will forever be remembered for the lyrics “I’m a bitch, I’m a lover, I’m a child, I’m a mother” – to thank for this reclaiming of a sexist word that has long been used to demean a woman and remove her agency.
And let’s not forget the ultimate mother bitch Jo Freeman, a feminist attorney who penned “The BITCH Manifesto” all the way back in 1969, to thank for giving the word bitch it’s new meaning. If you haven’t read the manifesto, DO IT NOW – then come back and finish this piece of course… Contemporary female singers and rappers like Trina, Rihanna, and Beyoncé have also re-appropriated the word, using “bad bitch” to signify a confident, independent, and attractive woman.
And yet, there are still many individuals out there – most of which happen to be men – who still favour the 15th century interpretation of the word bitch and angrily fling it in women’s faces with the sole purpose of trying to make it stick and offend.
In the professional world, where individuals are “trying to align our stereotypes about men and women, with our stereotypes about leadership“, women still have to contend with being referred to as a bitch or “bossy” when their assertiveness is re-interpreted as aggressiveness – a situation their male colleagues have the luxury of never worrying about. For anyone out there looking for more than anecdotal cases of gender bias in the workplace, science can back this claim up. This double standard sadly often results in self-defeating actions that have often has a negative impact a woman’s career. And even when women do speak up, they after simply oftentimes just not heard. Add other factors into the mix such as race or sexual orientation and things get even more complicated for women.
When a woman is called a bitch (in the malicious sense of the word) in the workplace or private sphere, it is a painful reminder that the word bitch when used in this offensive way highlights the fact that much of society still views the same behaviour differently when displayed by a woman versus a man. Societal constructions of what is and is not acceptable behaviour is still largely determined by one’s gender.
So just what is a bad bitch meant to do in a world full of mansplaining, manterruptions and gender bias? (continued)
Concept, Production, Casting, Photography: Rae Tilly (@raetilly)
Photography Assistant: Aaron Beattie (@itchy_shutter_finger)
Stylist: Yuliya Maltseva (@mltsva)
Assistant Stylist: Marie Louise Müller (@marielouise.m)
Hair and Makeup: Gianluca Venerdini (@gianluca.venerdini)
Models: in green Salomé Chandler (@salomechandler), in red Cao Zhong Yang Jin (@zhongtastic, in yellow Muriel Buchheim (@muriel_rubicon), in blue Neval (@nevermeer)
For NYLON Germany
Portrait session with Masha
Portrait session with Malin.
"Ruby for #theWOCproject"
#theWOCproject is an on-going project which features Women of Color and their stories.
Berlin Couples is a project I have started which features couples in their homes
Various Works of Art that I have created.
"Material Mag Re-launch 2017"
Event photography for Material Mag.